Love is fluid

Anyone who wants to teach, needs to find love first. Teaching is not something what is reserved only for pastors. I will explain what I mean later.

The pastors who failed, failed because they missed love. No one can do this heart if his heart is empty. Love is liquid. If you have a love, so share it with those who does not have it. If God have filled your heart with love, then share it with those who have empty heart.

The common problem of churches is that they run like a system, not like real family. There are lots of people who did not find Fathers love, who did not find any love. People who missed fathers, who missed mothers, who missed sisters and who missed brothers. If they did not have the particular kind of the love, so they cannot to pour it out of their heart. Because there is the emptiness in the heart. Also there are many many many people in the Church who did not see his love. Their heart was not changed by the love of the God. If it would be, then they were just do it, just were pouring it out.

There are many of topics we could cover. Just take 10 commandments and you see the areas which need to be filled by love. Over behaviour must not be motivated by strict obligation only. We need love. No one is able to keep the law without love.

You may read:

Dt 5:29 "Oh that there were such a heart in them, that they would fear me, and keep all my commandments always, that it might be well with them, and with their children forever!"

You see, he did not say "Oh let they obey me and fear me always and forever..." He said "Oh that there were such a heart in them". So the change of heart is needed before we can act. But how can the heart can be changed without knowing it. That is why Jesus said: "For if you love those who love you, what reward do you have? Don't even the tax collectors do the same?" Just think about it, how could a poor man be merciful towards a rich man? Should not this be on the other way? If you are from a family which have abundance of love, then you are obligated to God to share the love with those who does not have it. But do you know what? It is simple to find a person, give it a money and leave it. It is harder to keep a relationship with it. The money will not change anything, but love, your love can change much. You you have found that kind of love, you can give it to them. But how? Just keeping the relationships like with your brothers, like with your sisters or daughters or like with mothers or like with a son or like with a father.

And again, this is what God revealed to me this night. Jesus on the cross said: Therefore when Jesus saw his mother, and the disciple whom he loved standing there, he said to his mother, "Woman, behold your son!" Then he said to the disciple, "Behold, your mother!" From that hour, the disciple took her to his own home.

What he said. His mother already have the love towards the son and can pour it out toward the disciple. I don't know how much of mother love John received but here it seems like he was missing mother. John did not seemed like needed a mother, but Jesus said he needs your love.

Pour it out. The sisters who are not married yet, they are in special position. You hardly can pour out your sisters love towards a brother who is married. Long time I was part of a church and I was not able to find relationships there. I was there but seemed like I am there alone. Just one guys or two were interested to engage in relationship with me.

So if there is a man who did not have a love, how can anybody expect that he will have the love? If you say, have respect! But he did not find that respect yet, how can do the things which are expected to do with respect? If you say, communicate and talk to someone who did not have relationships, how can start to talk? You can to apply this to so many commandments as you wish.

Elders in the church expect that people will do some things because they TALK. But gospels power is not in talking but in power, in the acts. "For the Kingdom of God is not in word, but in power." 1Cor 4:20. The most damaging works in churches are correcting people instead pouring out the love, sharing, giving, sacrificing. Most people in the church will say:

I have no time man, I have my own family! Well, I don't have a family, I did not find it nowhere, nor in a church. So how can I change myself. That's like trying to catch a light and place it into a box. Come on. You cannot catch a light. You need to take your light, a candle or something and go there. Love require your activity and challenge. We cannot expect that people will give or do things when they don't have the one most needed thing which is love. I was used to go to church and listen to sermons, I was used to worship, but there were nothing more. So the correct way to teach needs the power of gospel: the acts. I know that some of you met God miraculously and you have obtained that from Father. But not everybody had this grace.

Man, if you are in a society in which you don't find love, you need to find someone who can give you love. Just as Jesus said to the disciple John, "Behold your mother", you also need your mother, your father or your sister. Sister! If you have love and you see a brother who has not known a sibling, you can change his life if you are his sister! I do not believe in religious clichés and addressing "brother" and "sister" when people in the church treat foreign people or just as "friends". The value of those words has degraded in the church that they no longer realize their true meaning. A church that speaks of itself as a family but is not, simply does not work. Man, if it happened to you, don't waste time where they don't love. You are not bound by the Word of God to stay in that place, to seek love, because love is fluid and has to be pour out from person to person like a bucket into a bucket. Man, don't worry anymore because you're not perfect or you don't have love when no one gave it to you. You may encounter criticism: why you are not like this or why you do not do it when the Bible says you should do it, but now you know that you are not able to do it from your own strength. Until that empty space in your heart is filled, you will not change it. Only love can change that place, whether you find it with God or with people. Anyway follow love, chase love, because without love there is no life.